Telling someone who is fat that they are fat or have gotten fatter is a bad idea. Anyone with common sense should know that. Because this fat person has this thing called mirror in their house and it reflects their image so they are aware of the fact! And they don't need reminding! Because they are aware of it, conscious of it every second of their day and it is their desperate wish to change it. So they just don't need to hear it from others and feel twice as bad about it. If this fat person was someone who is super bold and super confident and the kinda person who would say "you can go hang." in reply to such a comment, then its okay. But this fat person is a silly self-conscious girl who is so badly wanting to look good to please that person decreed for her and she is striving to get there, she really DO NOT need this.
She would SO appreciate it if they would shut up. Hints. Hints and more hints. Hints just about as subtle as a shot gun.
People rarely ever tell me I'm fat. In fact, they even tell me that I'm perfect and that I'm not at all fat, and my girls all think of me as a beauty. But then there are some Other people.
So next time you see a fat person, you DO NOT wanna tell them to their face "hey, you're fat, you should diet". You might as well have slapped them.
Its not just fat people. Nobody likes to be told things like that. It is human nature. And anyone who doesn't know that is practically inhuman.
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